According to experts it's spending the date "digging for deal-breakers." Your first date went so well that you enter the second searching for things that will ruin the potential for a long term relationship. That may explain why after a week people stop calling you even though "things were going so well."

"What are your politics?"

"Do you have a secret family?"

"Who's your favorite Boy Band of all time, and BTW if you don't say 'NSync I'm walking out of here!"

At the same time if you've invested a lot of time dating someone only to find out later that they hate kids, are racist, or believe O-Town is the best, I can see why you'd do this without realizing it.

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